Keeping calm and managing nerves
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When it comes to big changes, nerves are natural. While many youngsters in Year 5 will see the start of secondary as lightyears away, others may already be apprehensive about the big change. As they progress through Year 6, these nerves are likely to grow.
Our own students are keen that those set to join them in the years to come – or join other secondaries – shouldn’t spend time worrying. Here are some things that concerned them as they prepared for life at secondary. As soon as they settled into the school, the realised these concerns were nothing to worry about:
- Finding your way around – “yes, the school is big, but staff are friendly and will be happy to help. Most schools will give tours on Induction Day.”
Staff will be friendly and happy to help.
- Making friends – “everyone is in the same boat. Be friendly and others will be friendly back.”
- The big kids – “older students are busy with their own friends. Most will be friendly but even those that don’t go out of their way to be friendly won’t be thinking about making trouble for you.”
- Tests and assessments – “tests are more regular than at primary school, but they are there to help you – not get you in trouble.”
Tests are there to help you, not get you in trouble.
- Packing your school bag – “you do need to bring different items with you every day – but planning your week and packing your bag soon becomes second nature.”
Secondary schools invest a great deal of time in ensuring that both parents and young people have access to the information and support they need to manage this transition. Make sure you take advantage of it and ask any questions if you are unsure.